skeeter is a fradey cat! jumps at every noise. he is very curious and wants to explore and dosent like to be held but dosent mind sitting on you. so he is 5 years old and i guess pretty much set in his ways. is it ok to just do minimal handeling and letting him hang out on me and with me rather than holding him and all that? im just like him i dont mind hanging out but dont be grabbing all on me etc.